Navigating 21 Years of Fatherhood

My name is James Radford Embarking on the journey of being a full-time stay-at-home dad is an adventure filled with ups, downs, and countless precious moments. With over 21 years of experience as a stay-at-home dad, I’m here to share my personal experiences, insights, and wisdom with you. Whether you’re a seasoned at-home dad or considering this role for the first time, join me as we explore the challenges, joys, and invaluable lessons that come with being a stay-at-home dad.

From my personal experience, I can confidently say that choosing the path less traveled as a father is perhaps the most crucial work you will ever undertake. You may encounter criticism, with people labeling you as lazy or insisting that it’s not your responsibility. My advice? Tune out the noise and stay focused on the profound task of nurturing confident and goal-oriented children.

Dads bring a unique and invaluable contribution to their children’s lives. The moments spent engaging in morning roughhousing or cuddling up with a lap full of toddlers before nap time are experiences that I wouldn’t trade for anything in the world. As a father who grapples with ADHD and dyslexia, I’ve discovered that this role suits me perfectly. My wife and I made the conscious choice to embrace this path years ago. While it hasn’t always been a continuous journey, it has adapted to the changing seasons of our lives.

As my own sons have matured and moved forward in their lives, I’ve discovered profound fulfillment in embracing the role of a girl dad to my 9-year-old daughter and as a foster dad. Over the past three years, I’ve had the privilege of caring for approximately 16 children, each of whom lacked a father figure at home for various reasons. It’s crucial to recognize that fatherless households represent a significant issue in our society, akin to a widespread pandemic. I firmly believe that one of the most impactful ways to contribute to the solution is by stepping in as a father figure for these children who are growing up without one.

Every single day, I have the privilege of showing young boys what a man of integrity looks like, and I serve as a role model for young girls, demonstrating how they deserve to be treated by a man. Both of these roles lay a solid foundation for success in the future.

Remember, you are not alone on this journey. You have what it takes, and I’m here to support you every step of the way.

With unwavering commitment to the journey,
James Radford